I love checking my attitude. And being aware so I am not adversely affected by someone else's attitude if it is negative (sometimes I hit it, sometimes I do not- it's all good, just gotta keep on trying).
I really like to egg on positivity and bring out the best in others. This feels "right". Our instincts and our bodies are always giving signals. It is so good to pay attention. If I miss it, so be it. But I aim to keep this practice of checking my attitude. I just want to be the best I can be which for me means being kind, supportive, patient, understanding, open and loving.